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How to Find the Perfect Boyfriend, you should understand what "perfect" means to you.

Getting a boyfriend in a short window of time takes determination, confidence, and openness. Here are tips to get the

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Default How to Find the Perfect Boyfriend, you should understand what "perfect" means to you.

Getting a boyfriend in a short window of time takes determination, confidence, and openness. Here are tips to get the love you want and the relationship you are after.





Part 1
Finding Him



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If you want to find a boyfriend, get out of the house and put yourself in the dating game as an active player. Love won't find you home alone on the couch.
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If you're looking to date, chances are you won't find one in the old stomping grounds. Get out of your comfort zone and challenge the way you run into guys.
Swipe left or right on dating apps like Tinder or sites like Match.com and Date My School.
Give that coworker you've always had your eye on another look.
Meet your next suitor while giving and volunteering back to your community.
Chat with your classroom crush by inviting him to study with you.
Take yourself out of your comfort zone by hanging out at a new place, like a burger joint or pool hall.
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Everything from what you say to the clothes you wear speaks to a man when he meets you. Be sure you bring your best self to the table each and every time.
Wear clothing that embodies you and your personal style.
Take care of your hair and always make sure it is polished and neat.
Practice the less is more example with your makeup look.
Be wary of any nervous ticks: playing with your hair, diverting your gaze, fidgeting with your hands. Stop yourself immediately if you do any of these things.
Maintain eye contact and a steady tone of voice at all times.





Part 2
Catching Him





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Understand that the first step of meeting potential mates is projecting availability. You're open to finding love and your aura supports that. Make a solid first impression by being approachable and warm.
A simple hello is the start of every great relationship.
Ask easy icebreaker questions like what he does for a living, how old they are, if they go to school, what he does for fun, etc. If you have anything in common, it's a great way to keep the conversation going and learn.
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Make eye contact. This signals interest and a deeper emotional connection.
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Smile. It doesn't have to be wide and toothy, but let him know that you are comfortable in his presence.
Smile whenever you see him, but withhold it for a second. He'll consider that your automatic response if you smile too quickly.
Waiting until he is fully engaged and in your presence gives him the impression that your smile is meant just for him.
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Express enthusiasm in him and his interests. Ask him more about it when he brings up something about himself. If you give them the space, most people are more than happy to talk about themselves at length.
It's okay to talk about yourself as long as you don't monopolize the dialogue.
Be an active listener, meaning you listen to him as he speaks and do so in the moment, versus being in your head trying to come up with different things to talk about. Men like women who can be present with him. Show him you can be in the moment.
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Touch his arm, laugh frequently, work a compliment or two into the conversation. You don't have to overdo it, but if you send positive signals he will notice.
If he responds well, it's okay to gradually escalate signals of interests. Let him know that you are receptive to his indicators of interest, if he is sending them.
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Make a plan to see him again. Find an opportunity to run into him again once you've developed the initial connection. If you have to create that opportunity, it's alright.
End the conversation early on a pleasant note so that you leave him with a tease of what a one-on-one interaction with you would be like.
Let him know that you are interested by leaving him with your number and say, "We should hang out sometime".
It's perfectly okay to be forward and act as the pursuer, it is best to let the man pursue you so that you're never in your head about his interest in you.
By letting him do all of the work and most of the chasing, you are able to look level-headed and keep the focus on yourself, which is how it should be.





Part 3
Keeping Him





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Make yourself less available to him by phone so that within a week, he feels compelled to ask you out. He will notice that because he can't talk to you like he wants to through call or text, that inviting you out has to be the next move to get to know you better.
You not only look like a challenge, but you make him want to know more about you by leaving a lot to the imagination about who you are your whereabouts. Save more details about you for the formal date.
If, for some reason, he still hasn't made a move and you're interested, say outright, "You should ask me out." You've laid your cards out on the table and leave him no choice but to answer with a response of his own.
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Share mutual interests. Something magical happens when two people not only connect physically but also mentally. The connection deepens and so does interest level when you share similar interests.
Find something you both like to engage and do in it. This would be a great first or second date option. If he likes hiking, leave the typical dinner date idea at the table and go hiking as a first date.
Don't get into football just to make him like you. He'll be able to sense it and there will be an immediate turn off/lack of attraction if you're not genuinely interested in the hobby at least a little bit.
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He'll want to know that you are game for whatever he may decide that he wants to do with you. Sharing interests are great, but so are discovering new experiences and new interests together.
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Inject yourself into his life at least once a week. Suggest having a day or night where you see one another and do an activity. If he has a great time with you, this will happen naturally because he'll want to keep a "good feeling" around and that good feeling is you.
Keep things playful and lighthearted between you two. Don't bring up heavy topics unless they develop naturally.
Don't nag him or be overbearing about his space and time.
Give plenty of space for him to enjoy his freedom. [7] Concentrate on yourself and he will be drawn to you without much effort on your part.
In moments where you two are together, you will show him that you can enjoy a life with him while maintaining your own life separate from his.
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Men like to feel needed by women. Make sure it's reasonable and doesn't burden him too much.
A perfect example would be to tell him you need someone to move heavy furniture. It lets him show off his physical strength while putting him in the setting of your choice.
Another example would be to bring him on board with a task you have to do for work or school. This shows another side to you and your life while shining light on your strengths as a student or worker.
Let him pay for dates and open doors for you.
Reward him for doing nice things for you by complimenting him, saying "thank you", or doing something kind for him in return.
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Be honest about what you want. A lot of time can be saved in the very early stages of dating by learning what each party wants from the other. Make sure he knows where your expectations lie.
Men react to the possibility of commitment in all kinds of ways.
Try not to apply pressure, but be firm in your intentions and honest about where you would like the relationship to go.
Ask him where the relationship is going and based on his answer, move forward from there.

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When you're in a group, look over in his direction, make eye contact, and smile. Take this as an indicator of his interest if he smiles back.
Make sure your place, if he sees it, isn't too messy. Having some semblance of order, even if it isn't perfect, will show him that you are in control of your life.
It's okay to be shy as long as you push yourself and make an honest effort to get to know the other person.
Be yourself. It may be tempting to misrepresent your personality to market yourself to the guy you like, but this is a mistake. Once he discovers that you aren't the person he thought, any guy you win over by being inauthentic can be just as easily lost.
Pivot and make the focus about something similarly awkward you've done in the past if he creates an awkward moment. That will make him feel better.
Women are instinctively reluctant to be forward with their intentions and feelings. Men respect this and do respond to direct questions, especially those that aren't great at picking up on the subtle cues of flirting.
Pick a part of you that you know you can improve if you are prone to low self-esteem. Implement a plan to improve that part. This will boost your self-image.
Know the line between forward and desperate. It's a good thing, but too much of a good thing can become a bad thing and that means coming off as extremely desperate.
When you meet a boy, good things happen.
, if you go to school ask for homework help or ask him what classes he takes/ if he likes them.




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Getting a boyfriend in a short window of time takes determination, confidence, and openness. Here are tips to get the love you want and the relationship you are after.
If you want to find a boyfriend, get out of the house and put yourself in the dating game as an active player. Get out of your comfort zone and challenge the way you run into guys. He will notice that because he can't talk to you like he wants to through call or text, that inviting you out has to be the next move to get to know you better.

Don't flirt with his friends if you are around him and his friends. Be polite to everyone but demonstrate to him that your interactions are qualitatively more intimate.
Know when to cut your losses and move on. There are more men out there than you could ever imagine.
Don't be false. No, you don't have to nitpick or nag about everything, but is okay disagree sometimes and it is okay to be upfront about how you feel all of the time. Be authentic and frank.
Don't leave all the work to your flirtation mate: to really become happy, don't be lazy, spoiled or callous, and instead be proactive and a go-getter.
Don't ignore red flags. When thinking of him as a partner, observe how he treats other people and take what people and friends who love him say about him into consideration. It might be worth rethinking whether or not he's the guy for you if there are things about him that they don't agree with as unbiased people who love him.
Approach him and speak to him on your own initiative if you are interested in a man. Men like proactive women just like women like proactive men. Remember if it's not meant to be, don't be upset!

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